No wonder many are regretting after getting in and discovering that marriage is beyond money, charisma, beauty, security,anointing, influence etc… Festus taught Anita was so beautiful not knowing that Anita was an emblem of an uncultured lady. Festus gushes over her beauty in public and endure her impropriety in secret. He seems like a champion amidst his peers for marrying a beauty goddess but if only they knew he is living with a vulture at home… THE DECEITFULNESS OF BEAUTY! Sister Favor didn’t think twice before accepting the proposal of Pastor David. She is blown away by his dexterity and brilliance on the pulpit. Pastor David is a heavily anointed minister who has become the talk of the town. His ministrations are heavily corrosive. Little is known of his private life. Sister favor didn’t bother to look beyond the champion on the pulpit. If only she knew the heavily anointed Pastor David had no anointing for his temperament. She has become a sparring partner in marriage. ANY MARRIAGE BUILT ON CHARACTERISTICS RATHER THAN CHARACTER WILL FAIL. DON’T MARRY ATTRIBUTES, MARRY ATTITUDE. ~Nuel. Money is not enough to decide who you marry, who is the person hiding under money?? Anointing is not enough, who is the person hiding under the anointing? Beauty is not enough, who is the person hiding under beauty?? Charisma is not enough, who is the person hiding under that square shoulders. You are not marrying some part of a person, you are marrying the sum total of who that person is. Take caution, take time and don’t be enamored by that which only your eyes can see!! Your brother;
©Abah Emma Nuel